Tuesday, September 30, 2025

Screen Time

The issue of screen time is a question I constantly wrestle with. On the one hand, there's a large extent to which Funsize and Surprise! will inevitably have access to screens, and the important thing is for them to learn to be comfortable and safe using them. On the other hand, it's not healthy them watching too much TV/Netflix/Disney... and there are much worse things out there.

And so there have been tweaks, and more tweaks, and yet more tweaks. At the weekend there was an allocation of some additional time, to reflect an unfairness that had crept in. Today that has been adjusted downwards again.

But I think it may need to be something we discuss again. And again...

Saturday, September 27, 2025

Another Milestone Passed

Last night Funsize and I finished our read-through of "Harry Potter and the Half-blood Prince", which marks the completion of the 23rd book of the year. This therefore means that I have now read more books this year than last, which is obviously a really nice place to be (albeit rather too early - and nowhere near the totals of years gone past).

#23: "Harry Potter and the Half-blood Prince", by J.K. Rowling

Thursday, September 25, 2025

Stung!

It has been many years since I was last stung by a wasp. I can't say the experience has improved any over the intervening time.

Perhaps the most galling thing of all, though, is that the awful provocation I made to be stung was to open the window, that the wasp was nowhere near, in order to let the wee beastie escape from our office. Grr!

#22: "Dragons of Eternity", by Margaret Weis and Tracy Hickman

Tuesday, September 16, 2025

Seven Weeks On... the Decision

Seven weeks ago, I posted that we were mulling over what to do about Christmas this year. As it happened, LC and I had a conversation on the topic about six weeks ago and more or less locked it down - we were basically in agreement, and so other than leaving some time to let it settle there wasn't much more to say. Still, I did say I don't start my Christmas countdown until 100 days before, and so it isn't until now that I'm ready to share.

The upshot is that we're more or less going to repeat what we did last year: we'll host people for the big meal at Christmas. I'll head over to see some other family on Christmas Eve, and then we'll meet with everyone for the big gathering on Boxing Day, but Christmas Day itself will be a local walk followed by a large meal, followed by TV. (For the TV, since there's no "Wallace & Gromit" and no "Doctor Who", we've identified a recent film that we'll carefully avoid watching until then, and use that as our centerpiece. Until FS and S! object, that is.)

I think that means we're now getting towards settling our core "Christmas experience". That may be another post for when the season is really underway.

Ironheart

One of the more unfortunate aspects of our current society is that these days reviews are almost entirely useless, especially when the protagonist is anything other than a straight white male - everything else is met with a relentless barrage of review-bombs on one side, and a set of hagiographic "reviews" on the other intent on redressing the balance. Neither of which serves to answer the actual question: it is actually any good?

Which brings me to "Ironheart", a show starring a young woman of colour. So, inevitably, the reviews are mixed, to say the least: some people are slating it on every possible pretext but not stating their real objection; meanwhile, the professional reviews are glowing, ignoring the flaws of the thing.

We finished watching it last night, and actually "mixed" is about as fair a review as you can get.

The positives: the cast are great, the characters are well drawn, the effects are surprisingly excellent, and the story, while basic, is well told.

My first negative is that it could do with some more jokes. I do also find some of it extremely far fetched, even within the context of Marvel - the show rightly made the point that Tony Stark's billions were a massive part of why he was able to do what he did... and then has RiRi do exactly the same without those resources anyway. (And, yes, Stark put together his first suit in a cave with no help. But Stark's first suit was also a comparative piece of junk.)

But those are fairly small beans.

I also felt that the ending was underwhelming - once again, we have a finale where the main plot is suddenly resolved very quickly, and we spend a significant amount of time dealing with other stuff - "Discovery" has just done that, "Doctor Who" has just done that, and now this. (Of course, that's largely coincidence - some of these came out some time ago, and I just happen to be watching them all together.) I almost got the feeling that the first five hours of "Ironheart" were largely an excuse for them being able to introduce Mephisto in the final episode. Which is weird.

Lastly, though, there is something that makes me really uneasy. In the first couple of episodes, RiRi engages in serious criminal activity. It's not 'questionable' or 'borderline', or any other euphemism - she's working with a group of thugs and is party to violence, extortion, and almost certainly murder. Plus, there's one point where she's almost certainly on bodycam footage as a cop is shot and killed.

And the show never addresses this and there are no consequences - we're full-square behind RiRi as she breaks from the group, not out of any moral stance or principled objection, but because they find out she's killed one of their number. There's no question of going to the authorities, or facing due process for the crimes she has actually committed. It's all just handwaved and then ignored.

And that's a real problem.

(And, again, it's true that Marvel has a track record on this, where various Avengers have gone rogue at various times, and even when they haven't they do engage in all sorts of illegality. The key difference, though, is that they don't actively and knowingly go to work for the bad guys. At their very worst, they are duped into their actions, but that's not the case here - RiRi knows that Hood and his team are sketchy as hell, but is motivated by the money.)

The upshot: my feelings about "Ironheart" are deeply mixed. But I'll be more than happy to see RiRi Williams appearing in future Marvel projects, and I'll be happy to watch other things produced and directed by Ryan Coogler (incidentally, "Eyes of Wakanda", by the same producer, is really good). I find this flawed, but not the disaster the review-bombers would have you believe.

Thursday, September 11, 2025

Experimental Cookery 2025: Spiced Chicken Meatballs with Garlic Tomato Sauce & Tahini (Yoghurt) Drizzle

This one came from the most recent Tesco magazine.

I have, of course, made meatballs before, though never from chicken, and making a simple sauce is easy, so this one was quick and easy to put together. There are two things I would do differently next time: rather than chopping the onion I'd use the food processor to get a much finer consistency, and I'd actually remember to put the yoghurt in the tahini yoghurt drizzle! (I don't think that actually made much difference - it meant using a lot more water to get the desired consistency, but very little difference to the eventual texture or flavour. Still...) Oh, and I'd make up the meatballs immediately after getting the mince and then freeze - this allows for more flexibility than making them out of already-defrosted mince.

But the meal as a whole was very nice. We'll definitely have this again.

Tuesday, September 09, 2025

1984: Julia

There’s obviously a spectrum of sequels: most sequels are just more of the same, which makes them inherently a bit less good than the original. Sometimes, of course, you see a sequel that is better than the original, indeed sometimes much better. Then there are sequels that are bad, and indeed some so bad that we collectively agree they never happened. And then, very very occasionally, you get a sequel that perfectly complements and elevates the original, somehow serving to not only be great in their own right but to actually make the original retroactively better. It's even possible, somehow, to have a sequel that perfectly complements the original and diminishes the whole, retroactively making the original worse.

I'm not entirely sure which of those latter two categories "1984: Julia" falls into.

On the surface, this one is pretty straightforward: it's a retelling of "Nineteen Eighty-Four" from the perspective of Julia, Winston's lover from the original. This includes a depiction of her childhood in the early days of the rule of The Party, then we revisit the doomed love affair from the original (um, spoilers, I guess), and then we follow her life after their arrest and time in the Ministry of Love.

And, as I said, it almost perfectly complements the original - Orwell couldn't have written this book, not being a woman, but a "female Orwell" (if such a thing makes sense) absolutely could. Of course, Julia's perspective on the events shared with Winston is at once similar and yet not the same as his.

And yet...

One of the key things that this novel does is it strips away the ambiguity of Julia's character. In a novel like "Nineteen Eighty-Four", where so much of the narrative is driven by uncertainty and untruth, that ambiguity is, arguably, much needed. And removing that, and replacing it with one set of definitive answers, may be to do a disservice to the original.

I'm sorry to say, also, that the ending really doesn't work for me. It's carefully, and deliberately ambiguous, in a way that would be really good... except that however I look at it it just doesn't fit - taken at face value you're left with too much of a coincidence, but if you shift it into another layer of the deception you're left with loose ends that just won't tie up. Which is a shame, because the first third of the novel is outstanding.

The other thing about the ending is that, like Atwood's "The Testaments", it really undercuts the horror that the dystopia is apparently scheduled to pop up, engage in cartoonish levels of villainy for a couple of decades, and then collapse within a single lifetime. So much for a boot stamping on a human face, forever. (Though "The Handmaid's Tale" is, worryingly, looking ever more prescient - the West really is facing a serious decline in fertility, and it's hard to think of a solution that isn't absolutely horrific. But I digress.)

Still... maybe after so many decades it's fair enough to peel away one level of ambiguity, and replace it with another?

The upshot is that I do recommend this one, but with the caveat that you should know what you're signing up for. Once you've read this, you won't be able to unread it, so the original will be changed in your perception. Which, perhaps, is the highest praise I can give it.

(One parting thought: "Nineteen Eighty-Four" is of course one of those classic novels that schools used to teach, though perhaps unfairly given that it may be best appreciated by those with more life experience. Anyway, for those pupils in their upper years who have those big essays to write (we called them the RPR and a Dissertation, though they're surely called different things now), I think it might be interesting to study these two together... but have the pupil write their character study of Julia after reading the original only, and then reflect on how it changes after reading this.)

#21: "1984: Julia", by Sandra Newman

Sunday, September 07, 2025

Day 250: Update on Goals

Time for another update on goals for the year:

  • Books: By day 250 I should have completed 20.55 books. I fell slightly behind in late July and early August, but had caught up again by the end of August. I'm now very slightly ahead of target, so that's looking good.
  • Weight: No comment - it's fair to say this is a disappointment.
  • Career: This is now done!
  • Church Website: Disappointingly, there is no update on this one. I never did receive the information I was hoping for, so will have to find an alternate way forward.
  • Redecoration: Not only have we had the windows replaced, which has made an immediate improvement, we've also repainted the upstairs bathroom (which was needed as a consequence of the window being done).
  • Blogging:  If I had set my usual goal for this year, I would expect to have posted 82 times by now.  I'm very slightly ahead of target, with two-thirds of the year done.
  • Home Automation: No update since the last time – I missed the Prime Day sales, so am again waiting for the key item to reduce in price.
There's not much movement on the various goals, but they're mostly looking okay: two are done (one more than done), two are nicely on track, and one is waiting for a key event before proceeding. That only leaves two wanting some key attention, so those should be my focus for the next few weeks.

Saturday, September 06, 2025

Experimental Cookery 2025: Spicy Beef Burgers with Guacamole

With some regret I have to announce that I have reached the end of BBQ season for the year. We were fortunate indeed that the weather allowed for one more good BBQ, but I'm now calling it - in general, I prefer to end things on my own terms than to be forced to an end, and so it is with this season.

Anyway, we concluded with another burger from "The Handcrafted Burger", and it's another winner - a simple guacamole (not sure if there's really another kind), a minced rump steak with a spice rub, and the application of heat.

The one thing I think I would do different is switching the steak for mince - I'm not sure how much that added step really added, and the burgers were awfully small. I would say "disappointingly so", except that there really wasn't anything disappointing about these. But more would have been nice.

And that's that. We now move into Autumn, and then to Winter, and so a different phase of meals begins - could be fun!

Thursday, September 04, 2025

Recent Treks

We’re just entering the third month of a three-month deal on Paramount+ - once again, I took out a subscription to catch up on the various Star Trek series, timed to coincide with the new season of “Strange New Worlds”. (We also took the opportunity to watch two other films, one of which was okay and the other was disastrously poor.)

Looking at those new Treks, then…

Discovery

The oldest of the three, and indeed the reason we first subscribed to Netflix back in the day, “Star Trek: Discovery” had its fifth and final season. Which is fine, all apart from the finale. That final episode was an utter mess, although in fairness to them that seems to be a consequence of an unexpected cancellation – the final episode of the season turned out to be the final episode of the series.

I know Discovery is not generally regarded all that well these days, but I’ve always found it okay – it suffers from starting with a glimpse of a show I’d really rather watch, but does well in presenting the show itself. That said, it’s the weakest of the three seasons I’ve been watching.

Lower Decks

The fifth and final season of Star Trek’s animated series continues in the rich vein of form of this series. I suspect this was a good time for the show to end, as various things were starting to wear a bit thin. But this was a strong season to go out on. And, unlike Discovery, they had plenty of time to construct a finale that does a really good job of wrapping things up.

Strange New Worlds

I don’t have much to say about this season (which is still ongoing), except to note that SNW remains uniformly excellent. This is the show that justifies the subscription to Paramount+. Good stuff.

Section 31

Conversely, this made-for-TV movie is just terrible. Which is a real shame – while I’m no great fan of the whole concept of S31 in-universe, I am a big fan of Michelle Yeoh, and her turn as Empress Philippa Georgiou is usually a lot of fun. But the abridged runtime here really doesn’t give the story any time to breathe, the rest of the characters are really not great (and the presence of Rachel Garrett is especially grating). Such a shame.

All in all, Star Trek has been doing pretty well lately, though I do note that three of the four things I list are ended, while the fourth is ending soon. And I find I’m really not struck by any of their upcoming projects, be they in film or TV, and the prime, mirror, or Kelvin universes.


Wednesday, September 03, 2025

Pocket Money in a Cashless World

We’re probably overdue in giving Funsize some pocket money, and indeed in having her take on some chores around the house (those two are somewhat, but not inherently, linked). This raises a number of questions: exactly when, how much, which chores should she take on, and what is the exact relationship between chores and money received? So, all the usual questions parents have dealt with over the decades.

But there’s one new wrinkle that I haven’t seen a good answer to yet: how to deal with pocket money in a world without cash?

The thing is, I basically don’t use cash any more, to the extent that it’s a massive pain when I do have to pay for something using it – any multiple of £10 is fine, of course, since that’s just a trip to an ATM, but otherwise it’s either contactless, online shopping, bank transfer, or something like that. And while I am personally very strongly opposed to society getting rid of cash (which is a whole other rant), I also don’t want to actually have to use it. Which is a problem if I’m needing to give Funsize regular, small amounts of cash.

At the same time, she’s also too young for a debit card, and certainly for a phone (and therefore any pocket money app). Not to mention that having actual, physical money in different amounts makes the whole thing tangible in a way that simply waving a card for everything does not.

So I’m frankly a bit stuck.

#20: "Odyssey", by Stephen Fry