Monday, January 29, 2024

Lather - Rinse - Repeat

I know the blog has been quiet for quite some time. Unfortunately, I'm finding it hard to find things to talk about, as right now life seems to mostly be stuck in a loop of trying to survive to the weekend, then not quite enough rest to recover, and then repeating. This seems to be pretty common in January, but does seem especially tough this year.

The good news is that today I noticed for the first time that the sky was distinctly lighter by the time I left the house, so we're gradually getting out of the dark. Hopefully things will pick up soon.

Monday, January 08, 2024

The Forgotten Daughter

Over the Christmas break we took a short trip to Disneyland Paris as an extended family. Unlike a trip we took a few years ago, this was a fun adventure and one that the children, in particular, very much enjoyed. Which is nice.

On the third day of the visit to Disneyland itself (that is, not counting the day spent travelling there), young Surprise! reached a point where he just couldn't take it any more. And so, the weather being pretty ropey at that point, LC took him back to the hotel for what turned out to be the rest of the day. This left Funsize and I to enjoy our final afternoon in Disneyland together.

And we had a great time, racing from one ride to another, cramming in every last bit of fun that we could in that afternoon and evening - some new rides, a lot of repeated rides from the previous days, and even the tail end of one of the shows that we managed to catch at just the right time. Good times.

And while at the time I was rather hesitant, in hindsight I'm rather glad that the day worked out that way. For entirely understandable reasons, Surprise! requires a significant amount of our time, energy, and attention, and as a consequence he largely sets the agenda for our days. Worse, because we've then expended so much time, energy, and attention, when we are then freed up there just isn't much left. And so I'm often somewhat concerned that Funsize is just not getting a fair shake. We do the best we can... but it's a concern.

So having an afternoon like that, where Funsize was able to get some undivided attention, and where she was able to set the agenda and have things her way was very much welcome. Even if it did mean that we returned to the hotel late, and she was absolutely shattered as a result - if nothing else, it meant we absolutely got our money's worth.

#1: "Ariadne", by Jennifer Saint (which I enjoyed, though I enjoyed "Elektra" more)

Monday, January 01, 2024

Books of the Year 2023

A very short list of books this year:

  1. "The Fountainhead", by Ayn Rand *
  2. "Tome of Beasts 3", by Kobold Publishing
  3. "Dragons of Stormwreck Isle", by Wizards of the Coast
  4. "Tome of Beasts III Lairs", from Kobold Press
  5. "Paranormal Power", by Rachel Williamson
  6. "Cytonic", by Brandon Sanderson
  7. "Flying Scotsman and the Best Birthday Ever", by Michael Morpurgo **
  8. "Eldership", by various authors
  9. "A Woman of Substance", by Barbara Taylor Bradford *
  10. "Crucial Conversations", by Grenny, Patterson, Switzler, and McMillan
  11. "Bond: With a Mind to Kill", by Anthony Horowitz
  12. "Lion", by Conn Iggulden
  13. "Star Wars Roleplaying Game", by various authors
  14. "Guardians of the Wild Unicorns", by Lindsay Littleson **
  15. "Parenting Hell", by Widdicombe and Beckett
  16. "Firefly: Carnival", by Una McCormack
  17. "Elektra", by Jennifer Saint
  18. "Atlas Shrugged", by Ayn Rand *
  19. "Firefly: What Makes Us Mighty", by M.K. England
  20. "The Ink Black Heart", by Robert Galbraith
  21. "The Fall of NĂºmenor", by J.R.R. Tolkien (edited by Brian Sibley)

That gives a total of just 21 books - it's just about possible that I may have to come back and edit this to add a 22nd, but that currently seems unlikely. This includes no rereads, and two books for Funsize/Surprise! There are five RPG related books, making up almost a quarter of the whole.

I don't think this year really had either a 'best' or a 'worst' book - there were lots of fine works there, but nothing stood out for me as in previous years. But the major milestone was the completion of The List, which was a huge deal!

Partly as a consequence of being focused on The List, and the three "doorstop" books that were on it, I now have shelves heaving with reading material - no fewer than twenty (physical) books are awaiting my attention. Hopefully 2024 will end with far fewer sitting there, and none that are more than two years in waiting!